Oil, Gold, Potatoes, Happiness, Copper
Oil, Gold, Potatoes, Happiness, Copper
Yet a view seems to have developed that happiness is a commodity. The pursuit of happiness is enshrined as an inalienable right, like pursuing a rare and elusive bird of paradise, sometimes heard, seldom seen and sitting like a monarch perched on a raised dias composed of its own mythology.
If you ask different scholars they will tell you their prescriptive treatments for how to achieve happiness and how to cure its absence. Philosophers, mystics, magical theorists and others will massage your senses with exotic sounding formulas and esoteric practices. All of which may well be facets of the jewel that happiness is.
Then consider the universe. Something we try to make sense of, something that we have an approximate model of in our minds but which for the most part are only theories. Current thinking on dark matter, dark flow, singular and multiple universes which meet all the rigorous criteria of assessment by the scientific community suggest that everything we know is flawed. Like children trying to understand the workings of the adult mind we are wide of the mark.
This I say because there are few definitives in life, there are terrier like people who get the bit between their teeth and clamp down refusing to give an inch once their mind is made up. Yet what if their assumptions were based on inaccurate hypotheses? Or to be more prosaic, daft ideas?
And then we have this at once elusive but very tangible quality, happiness. The el Dorado of our age, the elixir to cure all life’s ills, the magic bullet. One theory doing the rounds at the moment is this: be born to wealthy established parents, receive a well rounded education at the best prep schools, primary schools, secondary schools and then attend a prestigious college while simultaneously developing a network of similarly groomed friends who can act as a supportive matrix to buttress your progress. Stay free of financial concerns, take regular time out… I think you get the picture. And on balance that may be a good happiness theory. Statistically, however, that is a prescription that fits so few of the world’s population as to be an irrelevance; especially as it writes off just about everybody else’s chance of attaining the grail, the magical cup that runneth over and enhances all with its bounty. At the other end of the happiness theory spectrum is this one: be happy. That’s it.
So having mapped out some of the territory, here is where I believe happiness fits into the equation. Human life is not arbitrary, not a happy accident – a caveat that applies to all life. Nor is it a shallow one dimensional veneer, it is a multiply aspected continuum of appearances, shifts and changes anchored by a physical body. Your physical body, despite its cell renewal and precoded cycles, is the one constant companion that shares your days.
That physical platform is the foundation for a group of different agencies that make up who or what you are. In my book The Mechanics of Happiness I refer to them as a trio or three yous, the Fixed, the Fluid and the Infinite; each of whom has dominion over specific territories that define our engagement with our lives.
The Fixed is untouchable; it’s genetics, DNA strands, chromosomes, puberty, maturation, old age. It’s all those things that are pre-programmed characteristics of our life that we can only observe, tinker with maybe, but we can’t change.
The Fluid is the workshop of your life, the anvil upon which you forge yourself. It is the place where you can affect change, it is the place where you have agency, can exercise choices and define the outcomes. This is the blank canvas upon which you construct your identity, assemble your psychologies, likes and dislikes, attitudes; it is the adventure playground where you go to gambol and cavort and whose ultimate conclusion is the person you become who can manage and interact with the world you are a part of.
The Infinite is that enigmatic quality that resides within us all. It is the human spirit, dormant, held in trust until activated by the triggers or buttons that are pushed in the Fluid arena of your life. Life is a property that permeates the universe, all universes, it is at once the most sacred and the difficult to define quality. A person may dedicate themselves to a particular commodity such as those mentioned earlier but it is this thing, life itself, that remains the most precious commodity of all. We may be agents of its appearance through procreation but life is not within our gift, we are the beneficiaries of it, its presence within our being confirms that we are endorsed by something greater than our own faltering rationale is capable of accommodating at this time.
It is only when these three are active that true happiness, a deep and abiding sense of well being, fulfilment and satisfaction may return to a person’s life. There is the temporary happiness that comes with temporary events, but the true, abiding and permanent happiness is the by product of a life spent well. Happiness is not an object in itself nor is it a worthy goal, these are mere distractions, happiness is the gift of a benign universe that is compelled to refine itself through the diversity of its expression. We are a part of that expression and our part in the arrangement is to become enhanced and thus seed the universe with greater cognizance and conscious understanding of what it is.
The universe is, in effect, a Fixed state, but we are a reflection of its urgencies to become something else, to metamorphose and transcend its own state. We are its nerve endings and each of us represents the potential to become, within that model, a neural pathway within the greater consciousness of the emerging universe. Our lives and the way that we live them represent the animation of dormant pathways. Our personal growth is the spark that leaps the synaptic gap, by analogy, as the mind of the universe forms itself around its leading edge.
So to the question, where is the leading edge of the universe now? The answer is within you and within your actions and within the man or woman you may become. That which is acceptable, because quality assurance exists throughout the universe, it’s not something we invented, it is something that we embodied from the nascent potential of the universe. We as translators of the already, embody that which exists in potential and is seeded within the universe as the blueprint of its conscious unfolding. In terms of quality assurance consider a tree and its leaves, each one perfect, a shoal of millions of fishes, each one as perfect and unique unto itself as it is of kind to its brothers and sisters.
Happiness, the permanent kind rather than the fleeting titillation, is the co-emergent residue of a state of enhanced being, of embracing the proposition of life in all its magnificence and sublimating oneself to that universal urgency. It is thorough and involves the active participation of the three yous and rather than being a destination it is in fact symptomatic of a departure point.
In the face of an onrushing tide of happiness theories, it seemed appropriate to consider the context and the setting in which true happiness may be nurtured, given succour and then sustained. The happiness of being, which is transcendent to the happiness of things.


Hehe, I would just like to add that, contrary to popular belief, what you defined as “fixed” is not really as fixed as it seems to be. It CAN be changed–just because we do not currently have the full understanding or technology to achieve this, does not mean that it is not possible. I have many examples for how it is possible and there is a vast amount of scientific phenomena to prove this, but for the sake of simplicity, I’ll just link you to this article to give you some examples. http://www.soulsofdistortion.nl/dna1.html Genetics, DNA strands, and chromosomes all have to do with this.
Ever heard of arrested puberty? Teenage anorexics who start out before puberty are well-known to have a completely arrested puberty, or, at the very least, delay it, both due to the continuous loss of weight, the presence of amenorrhea (no menses), hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis dysfunction, and the decreased output of growth hormone that results. Okay so I’m just talking in very technical terms here, but, really, many anorexics actually develop the disorder because they are afraid of growing up, either mentally or physically or both. Maturation also has to do with this, considering it’s just an extension of puberty. (Even after puberty, becoming very lean can decrease the body’s output of sexual hormones=which means lower sex drive, amenorrhea again, etc…) Therefore, puberty can also be changed or delayed.
Aging can also be completely reversed, or at least significantly delayed, when certain factors are present. Currently there is no scientific known way to be physically immortal (ha!), but, personally, with all the knowledge I’ve gained about delaying aging, I really do believe that eventually we’ll get to a point where it will be possible to live hundreds (or even thousands?!) of years and consider it totally normal. (That is, of course, considering humanty doesn’t destroy itself before that lol.)
You know, there is a very popular saying of Buddha, that goes like this: “There is no way to Happiness. Happiness is the Way.” (I do not agree fully–I do believe that there IS a way to happiness, however, it’s still the way.)
A person who is already happy (regardless of life’s conditions) is more likely to become successful, confident, and healthy. An unhappy person seeking success and health, and ultimately happiness, will have a much harder time getting there, in particular if his or her unhappiness gets IN the way.
Just my 2 cents. I did not finish reading your article, but perhaps I’ll come back, finish reading, and comment again later. Peace!
Oh, yes, about the aging thing – I forgot to add that Calorie Restriction is very popular nowadays, as it is believed to increase people’s longevity. There is a reason why there is a much larger life expectancy in certain countries and why it is lower than others, and it all has to do with a person’s habits (largely physical, but also mental/emotional/etc.) and environment.
Ana,
it’s interesting that you should pick up on these things. You probably know that genetics can be altered but only in the presence of ultra violet light. I find it most interesting that the depletion in the ozone layer that has occurred over the last few decades has altered the integrity of the protective shield and subsequently allows more ultra violet in. We might speculate upon the precise nature of the genetic changes this may or not be the harbinger of, evidenced at the physical level by the increased instance of skin cancer and decreased skin tolerance to exposure to sunlight.
Longevity is, no pun intended, nothing new and according to the Old Testament of the Bible, though not a scientifically verifiable text, the average age of the patriachs was 912. Adam is reported as living to 930 and Methuselah apparently reaching the ripe old age of 969. I personally have known people who were convinced that by observing certain practices they would achieve physical immortality and not only prevent the onset of the aging process but even reverse it. I say were because this was in the 1970s and the leader of that particular movement sadly died which somewhat undermined his credibility.
The ideas are out there, the practical application of them is the stumbling block.
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Always yours Aaron Ciallo